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Hypnotic submission is consensually, consciously, and intentionally using hypnosis to amplify or modify the feelings, sensations, or experiences of an adult submissive, by an adult dominant partner. This is accomplished through direct access to the subconscious, unconscious, or superconscious mind via trance technology. It is frequently but not necessarily used in an erotic fashion. It's consensual erotic mind control, creative sensuous brainwashing, or even lovingly usurping the will of a consenting partner, when done well. Hypnotic submission definitely does not involve being made to submit through hypnosis, but rather it allows those who are already consensual submissives or slaves, to submit more deeply than they could without it's use. Yes, there is this phenomenon called hypnosis, but it might not be what you think it is. There are many false ideas of what hypnosis is everywhere around you. Hypnosis is not some zombie-like state like in the movies. While hypnotized you will naturally feel that you retain your own free will. You will become more likely to be affected by the will of the hypnotist through the process of suggestion however. You will, much more readily, accept the suggestions of the hypnotist, than if you were not hypnotized. You won't be hypnotized to blindly follow the hypnotist around with a blank stare, saying only "Yes, Master" or "Yes Mistress" like you're in a cartoon. You will always feel that you are still in control, even though you are being controlled by another through your own suggestibility to their influence. In fact you can think of hypnosis as undue influence or increased influence of the hypnotist on the subject. Hypnosis is a very natural state of mind. It happens to everyone everyday. When you miss your freeway exit, when you're daydreaming, when you're watching TV, when you forget what your cooking because you are online, you are actually in a light trance state without knowing it. This change in your state of mind, called hypnosis (or the various trance states, or just the trance state), is able to escape your notice, because it is a very subtle change, and you are already used to it. Hypnosis is actually a state of mind of heightened awareness, not one where you are knocked somehow unconscious. You will feel that you know everything that is taking place, and that you can just stop it at anytime. Of course you feel that way in spite of how delicious it is to be hypnotized, and of course you will not want this wonderful experience to end, just yet. So although you can end a trance at anytime, you just don't or won't because it just feels so good. Hypnosis is thought to have evolved, by some, as part of the fight or flight mechanism, with you 'escaping' into hypnosis from some perceived overload of data. That doesn't explain all the various types of hypnotic inductions, but does explain some. Others think it's the way humans are uniquely gifted to be able to have a spiritual life. Whatever is your opinion, it is fair to say that everything isn't known about hypnosis by far. We just really have no commonly agreed upon idea, of what hypnosis really is yet. I personally know we are just on the brink of understanding these states of awareness. I am always checking out what is and isn't possible with hypnosis, and I am also very careful to observe subjects. Subjects tell you everything you need to know about hypnosis in so far as what works on them, and even what is possible with remarkable subjects. The observation of many subjects, I feel, is how the art of hypnosis developed, and will continue to evolve in the future. Suggestibility is said to increase with hypnosis. During hypnosis a subject is said to be more suggestible to the hypnotist, or to have increased suggestibility, even to themselves or the environment. This means they take in information more readily than normally, and actually accept suggestions more readily than normal, even for things that are not really normal for them. This is why you hear all the jokes about being a chicken or a hypnotist making a subject squawk like a chicken etc. Those people who have been chickens, have accepted a suggestions, or been more suggestible because of the hypnotic state. Everybody is suggestible, or hypnotizable. But there are different suggestibility types, so different types of inductions and suggestions aimed towards these types. This is why MP3s and CDs don't work for everyone. They are necessarily geared to the average subject. Maybe you are not average. Everyone feels different in hypnosis. You may not even notice any difference when hypnotized either, because it is so subtle. Some subjects report feelings of being heavy, feeling that they are floating, or even tingling. The ones who don't notice any difference, with more experience being hypnotized, will start to notice their actual feeling of hypnosis for themselves. The best way to know if it is working, is not by how you felt in the trance. The best way to know for sure, is to check and see if the suggestions are working. Test them. Just take one suggestion that you can check and see if that suggestion has taken hold. Like all things where a talent is concerned, there are some subjects who have more natural talent at going into altered states of mind which we call hypnosis, than others. Like the musician who is born with 'perfect pitch', these people have a natural way of just knowing how to do this. They are also what we call deep subjects, natural somnambulists, or talented hypnotic subjects. These great subjects are able to go deeper in the trance state, they remember less, they experience time while under hypnosis as even more compressed, and they are very fun to hypnotize. They do all this very easily too, without effort. In fact the more effort you exert at being hypnotized, the less well it works. Hypnosis takes the ability of being able to just submit to the will of another for a while. But it takes this for real, in a very demonstrable way. Here I am not talking about the subs who very much want to submit, but actually to the ones who actually can do it. This is a fine point but a critical one. This is why all subs are not naturally good subjects. Also with practice, you can become a better subject. The more you are hypnotized, the more easily you can be re-hypnotized. You can be conditioned to be a better and better subject in time, by practicing. This practicing can consist of just listening to any recorded medium of a trance that you feel takes you deep, or practic can be done with a live hypnotist. You may never become as talented as some amazing subjects this way, but you can certainly improve your ability to do all the fun things that can be done with hypnosis. Other things like intelligence, simplemindedness, willingness, natural submissiveness, desire to be hypnotized or the desire to submit, have no bearing on what makes a good subject. With the use of posthypnotic suggestions you can make what are called 'triggers' or 'trigger words' with hypnosis. A trigger is a word or phrase that elicits a previously suggested response. I can use this hypnotic technique to control my sub out of the state of hypnosis too. Most hypnotists use triggers only to rehypnotize a subject, I am sorry to say, because they are so fun. I have pioneered using many triggers on my subs. One sub had fifty different triggers. With triggers I can deny or cause previously specified behaviors feelings or experiences, like orgasms, intense feelings of submission, or pretty much any other things I wish to dream up. This is done using trigger words I have previously hypnotically implanted, in the subject's mind. Hypnosis increases the subjects suggestibility to the hypnotist. This is the means by which you get the subject's unconscious mind to accept the suggestion that they behave a certain way when a certain word is said. Triggers work by activating posthypnotic suggestions. A posthypnotic suggestion is a suggestion that something happens later when the subject isn't necessarily hypnotized. I make the trigger in hypnosis for example by simple suggestion saying "each and everytime I and only I, say [trigger word] for the purpose of [purpose] you will [do the behavior]." I state that I must use the trigger myself, and only for the intended purpose for safety. It's very important that I build in these safety precautions too, to avoid their possible use for the wrong purpose or by the wrong person. I've heard of many novice hypnotists not building in these safety features and I consider it the height of irresponsibility. Triggers can be a words, gestures, or behaviors. These triggers work both in and out of the trance state because the are posthypnotic suggestion driven. Suggestions in and of themselves do not work later or outside of the trance. I got so involved with triggers because I purposely select very deep hypnotic subjects. They go so deep they are all but unconscious recalling nothing, not even that they have been hypnotized. The orgasm triggers I give also work with or without ejaculation depending on which trigger I use, because I plant several different ones. I have found that most men are easily drained by rapid multiple orgasms with ejaculation, so I have devised male orgasms without ejaculation via triggered behavior. By using different types of triggers I get more control of his total sexual experience. For clarity here, I give submissive men these orgasms and multiple orgasms on command with absolutely no physical stimulation whatsoever, with only these trigger words. I enjoy giving my subs/slaves orgasms in odd locations by only hearing my special trigger word or seeing my special trigger gesture. In a good hypnotic subject I can control all sexual thoughts and actions with hypnosis, including the suggestion that erection is impossible without my permission, or that it only occurs when and where I choose. Absolutely, online and phone hypnosis are a fact, and fun too! After all, hypnosis online and by phone work with words and their understanding, suggestibility and it's manipulation, observation in the form of verbally or textually monitoring the subject, just like hypnosis in person does. People are actually frequently already in a light trance state while online, anyway, just from sitting and staring at the monitor anyway, so taking advantage of this is really pretty easy. The most important reason I am successful at online hypnosis, is that I constantly verify the depth of trance, and attention of the subject. In fact there are some online text trances (that feature myself as hypnotist and subject!) posted in my discussion group files. Any hypnotist can learn these skills pretty quickly. I just suggest right away that the subject can easily and always sit up, see, and type. I also require almost constant typed responses i.e. the phrase "yes Goddess" or just "yG or "y"" for "yes Goddess" and "nG" or "n" for "No Goddess". This way I can and do closely monitor the process. Many people write to me saying that online hypnosis with text only is not likely or even possible, but they are just ignorant of what hypnosis really is. I've been doing online hypnosis since 1995. I enjoy it, and with the caveats I specify in my FAQs here, I consider it safe as well. Thanks to text trances, which leave a record, I am able to share some of my trances with you in my discussion group in the files section. Please join my group and enjoy reading them here Hypnotic Submission Discussion Group by clicking on the 'Join the Group' link. After joining, a link to the files section will appear in the navigation bar on the left. Most professional hypnotists will disagree, but I know for a fact, and have proved beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you may be able to be hypnotized deeply, rapidly, and secretly, without your knowledge or consent. I call these trances 'sneak inductions'. By way of experiment in order to gain a truer understanding of the limits of hypnosis and of the craft of hypnotic submission, I have put subs who are good hypnotic subjects, in a deep hypnotic states without their knowledge or consent. With some really great subjects, they have no memory, at all or in part, of even having ever been hypnotized, even when hypnotic amnesia is not ever suggested in the trance state! I call these subjects 'black out' subjects. It could happen to you too if you happen to be a good subject, whether you happen to think you are a good subject or not, whether you have experience or not at going into altered states, whether you perceive yourself as resistive or not, and whether you are skeptical about hypnosis or not. Many hypnotic subjects are quite surprised to find that they are very good subjects for hypnosis, whereas before their first hypnotic trance they thought they couldn't be hypnotized or that hypnosis was fallacious entirely. Novice subjects are notoriously bad at predicting whether or not they will make good subjects. I have asked many thousands of subjects now if they think they are good subjects and why. Their answers are so shockingly disrelated to what makes a good subject just that, a good subject. People think that cooperativeness, or imagination, or creativity make good subjects but they do not! Being a good hypnotic subject is a talent that can be improved with practice like playing a musical instrument. It is the talent of easily going in and out of different states of consciousness or 'altered states' if you will. This has no relationship with intelligence, naivete, willingness, or imagination, it's a talent, pure and simple. You actually become a better hypnotic subject (going deeper more easily and recalling less) the more experience with hypnosis you gain. So even if you are not naturally a great trance subject you can improve your ability to go under with practice, and even get better at achieving what hypnotists call deeper and deeper trance states. I have been a certified clinical hypnotherapist for over 20 years now, although I don't have a practice as a therapist anymore due to the obvious ethical conflict between doing relationship counseling and having such an alternative relationship lifestyle being a Domme. I know the tool of hypnosis well, and have hypnotized tens of thousands of subjects. I delight in the craft of manipulating the mind of another. I know how to recognize when a subject is going under without my trying to put him there, and how to take advantage of that sort of situation, if I want to. And, if I can do it and do it, other skilled hypnotists can do it and do do it too. Many believe nonconsensual hypnosis is impossible. They say that all hypnosis is self hypnosis. I know for a fact that this is false. So does anyone who has studied the history and techniques of advertising and the art of persuasion. Please, learn how to recognize the subtle signs of entering a trance for yourself. The feeling is different for everybody but consistent trance to trance in each person. Know when you are going under for your own personal safety, and know when someone is trying to put you there. A word about nonconsensual trances. There are those who's fantasy it is to non-consensually submit, ie. to be taken. This especially, but not always, applies to male subs it seems. You can give prior consent and still have the feeling of being taken but without the danger. The nature of 'shock' inductions or flowing conversational 'sneak' inductions is such that you will still feel all the wonder and amazement at that kind of hypnotic control. Triggers planted with posthypnotic suggestion to re-enter the hypnotic state can be powerful one-word 'instant' inductions triggers, that cause startling behaviours or feelings and can work in less than a second creating the feeling rapture of being taken. There are those who think nonconsensual hypnosis is cute or not very powerful, or who disrespect what a great subject you might be becoming, or already are, whether by nature or practice. They may really not know the depth of your hypnotic state or how deeply you are being influenced. They may just be careless, inexperienced, or misinformed hypnotists. Visual or verbal verification by, the hypnotist, of your hypnotic state is the crucial determining factor, that can make this wonderful kink safe or not! An hypnotic Dominant needs to understand right away how important it is to verify the depth and state of mind of the subject! This is especially true when hypnosis occurs without the Dominant being able to view the submissive, by phone or online, as opposed to it's occurring in person. Of course verifying depth of trance is always important at all times with hypnosis. This can be achieved as simply as asking you to answer 'yes Mistress' to each suggestion and then using your voice to determine your state of mind or depth. Online you can be asked to rate how deep you are on a scale of one to ten, ten being most deeply hypnotized and one being your normal waking state, or any other such rating devices. Don't forget, the first time you're hypnotized by a 'new to you Dominant', you should also immediately be given the suggestion to come out of trance if your phone or network connection fails. You should also be given the suggestion that you will automatically come out of the trance state without hesitation if separated, and to re-establish the connection as soon as possible with the Dom/me. This is to verify that you are indeed out of the trance state, and are all right. You should also be taught how to come out of trance by yourself too with a device suggested in the hypnotic state like counting back up out and out of the trance state in case re-establishing contact is not possible. The hypnotic complications of Domination are more serious without the face to face component, on the phone, or online. So is real-time Hypnotic D/s play with hot wax, highly constrictive bondage, suffocation modalities etc., you may have suppressed pain or other sensations because of the hypnotic state. Extreme caution must be exercised at all times, and your sensations must be observed more or less constantly i.e. checking for good blood circulation with bondage, etc. A word to male would be hypnotic submissives: there are so very many of you compared to the number of hypnotic Dommes, maybe even a million of you to each. Don't let the hunger you feel for her sweet control hypnotically and otherwise, cloud your judgment about the danger of the wrong Domme. Be especially careful about commercial Dommes. They have ulterior motives, purposes (i.e. generating revenue) other than love, kink, and fun, and the satisfaction She derives from controlling you. On the other hand, never assume that someone isn't a predator because they are 'lifestyle' Dom/mes either, i.e. non-commercial as Dominants. Your mental and physical well being are at stake here, even your beliefs about yourself, your body, your mind, are at stake too. Truly, one of the most outrageous predators I am aware of is a non-Domme. She is a true (nonconsensual) hypnotic predator that refuses to admit that guided meditation is hypnosis proper, even though she is a certified clinical hypnotherapist and knows better! She used a very sexy guided meditation (i.e. hypnosis) on a slave who was my property, innocently claiming friendship to me at the time. Although you are a male and even strong physically or mentally, please don't underestimate the female predator in the guise of Domme or hypnotist. You are not doing anything wrong. Everyone is hypnotizable too. And, it isn't even your lack of a "dominant female" either. I can already guess the types of hypnosis you have tried. Here's what's going on. There are different types of suggestibility. One size does not fit all for trances, or even inductions for that matter. We are all different, we hear and learn differently, and in different ways too. There are some really large suggestibility groups and a few really small ones too. What if you aren't average? What if you have a certain kind of suggestibility that is from such a small group of people, say 10%, that hypnotists who make trances for general consumption don't even bother to put suggestions in there trances for people like you. What if you are from a suggestibility group that has to be hypnotized differently than the average subject? Hypnotic submission is not used to make a submissive, be submissive. By definition, if they truly are submissive, they already know how to do that. But the use of hypnosis with dominance and submission, or what we call hypnotic submission, can amplify the delicious sensuous, erotic, or even painful feelings and sensations of submission and more. It can afford the dominant hypnotist a greater measure of control that would not, or could not be achieved otherwise. An example of this would be unlimited repeated male multiple orgasms via a trigger word, called a hypnotic trigger. Another example would be an hour long orgasm or longer, through hypnotic suggestion. Another example would be an orgasm that is 100 times more satisfying, or more intense, than the subject's previous best orgasm. Another example would be making a male instantly erect and instantly flacid on command with hypnotic trigger words. There are unlimited examples, depending only on the creativity of the hypnotic Dominant. Dominance and submission, or D/s, is a consensual agreement or contract between adult partners, who are equals with opposite and complementary natures or preferences, to consensually engage in an unequal power structure, in a relationship, or in play, or both. There are only two things necessary for it to be D/s. These two things are power exchange, and complete and total consensuality. When consensuality is ignored in any manner, to any degree, the activity ceases being D/s and becomes abuse, period. BDSM is Bondage, Dominance or Discipline, Sadism, Masochism, which is a set of behaviors sometimes but not always associated with D/s. D/s and BDSM may or may not overlap. Yes definitely D/s but not necessarily BDSM. We in the D/s or BDSM communities have slave david stein to thank for this concept. He coined this phrase, "safe, sane, and consensual S/M" in New York in 1983, in statement of identity and purpose of the New York's Gay Male S/M Activists (GMSMA). SSC stands for Safe, Sane, and Consensual, and in my opinion is the only bylaw of D/s or BDSM. Without these three it is not D/s, but something else. If a dominant seems crazy, is not concerned with your safety, or not asking for your consent, find another one. Consensuality means with consent. It is the consent of both partners (consensuality between both) at all times that is a cornerstone of D/s and BDSM. This website and the D/s and BDSM communities make an absolute distinction between explicit consensual acts between legally adult partners for their mutual pleasure and all acts of nonconsensual violence or abuse, whether sexual, mental, emotional, physical, spiritual or any other nature. Imposing any sexual, D/s, or BDSM activity upon an unwilling person or on a person unable to give legal consent, is a criminal offense and is not supported or advocated by the D/s or BDSM communities, by Myself, or by this website. Imposing any activity upon an unwilling person or person unable to give consent or legal consent is also a moral and ethical affront, and also not supported by the D/s or BDSM communities. In addition, laws vary from state to state, region to region, and country to country. Some of the activities described on this website may even be illegal in your jurisdiction. It is your responsibility, duty, and obligation to uphold the laws of your community, state or country. Where there is power exchange, consensuality is what separates D/s from abuse, and nothing, I mean NOTHING else. Especially where the male submissive is concerned, there sometimes arises the question of being 'forced' to do something, feel something, or behave in some way. This needs to be recognized as the feeling of, or illusion of being 'forced' because both partners are always free to quit the relationship. "Forced feminization", for example, is only being 'forced' in the sense that if the sub does not comply, they might be let go. Where hypnosis is in use it's very easy to amplify the 'feeling' of being forced to do something too. Feelings are so easily manipulated by trance induced programming. Your D/s or BDSM so-called "limits" are ideas of what you will and will not do in a given D/s or BDSM context, which are negotiated between the you and your partner, before anything begins. These are what are called hard limits i.e. ones that are not negotiable, they cannot be pushed. If a Dominant, especially a 'new to you Dominant', actually tries to push your hard limits, you should try to discuss your displeasure with it with them immediately, in no uncertain terms, away from the state of hypnosis and away from the state of 'subspace' (the altered state of consciousness that D/s play can create in the mind of the submissive). You should use your safe word if necessary. If it is again taken too far by the Dominant after you have discussed your objections, you should just quit the relationship. If a 'new to you Dominant' tries to use hypnosis to push your limits, or suggests in the trance state, that pushing them becomes easier you should initiate the same discussion process, out of the state of hypnosis, after using your safe word, unless you wish this to be so. There are what are sometimes called soft limits or ones that are negotiable and these should never be renegotiated within 10 minutes of a trance, because the sub is so suggestible to the dominant at this time. Even most hypnotists don't realize it, but the state of hypnosis, including it's attendant heightened suggestibility (of the subject to the hypnotist or sub to the Dominant) lasts another five to ten minutes after you are taken back out of the state of hypnosis, sometimes even longer. That's on top of the natural suggestibility of the sub to the Dom/me. This lag time to come fully out of hypnosis is also true for any other activity that is trance inducing like subspace, electronic games, loud hard rock music, using the computer, driving on a boring freeway, watching TV, practicing a musical instrument etc. This is why I say not to adjust your limits, decide matters of consent, or rethink boundaries in close proximity to trance states. Remember, to give consent, you MUST have a good idea in advance about what you are getting into, and be clear about exactly what and how much you want to happen. This is even more important if the Dominant is new to you. Be completely certain what you want to happen and when, with both D/s and hypnosis. You must decide in advance, especially where hypnosis is concerned! Regrets, physical harm, emotional harm, or even death may result from a lack of understanding and planning with D/s, BDSM, and hypnosis. This is the subs part of keeping D/s or BDSM safe, sane, and consensual. Hypnosis, subspace, or any trance (all altered states are forms of hypnosis) can present special concerns with D/s. It can be much harder, or even impossible to SET boundaries IN the state of Hypnosis or shortly after it. You need to carefully arrange boundaries about what you are consenting to for that evening. Stick to these limits, until you, the submissive are ready to change them, and you decide to establish new ones, based on a relationship built on trust, communication, and understanding. Even with these in place, then think about it for a day or two as well. You may be tempted not to, but do take my advice for safety's sake. Work to build your self-esteem as a sub. Your limits are your choice and your responsibility. Be strong! If the Dom/me is great...they will wait! Ask yourself before the meeting with your dominant, am I ready to safely be hypnotized tonight, this week, or even this month? Do I first need to wait and check out this dominant a bit more thoroughly, before you give them control of my mind, which is arguably my most valuable possession? Do I want that trance to be sexual in nature right now, soon, or would it be better to wait a while?" Do you feel that it is prudent to play with a potential means of harm to your mind or body like bondage, hypnosis, gags, mind control, pain, or torture? Please know the answer to at LEAST these questions before playing around with an hypnotic dominant. I highly suggest you don't 'trance around', as my former slave calls it, but find a dominant who will work with you to build a trusting relationship first. Trust takes time to build. After all this IS a form of mind control. Brainwashing isn't out of the question here, this is what hypnotic conditioning is, to one degree or another. Even when you do decide the time has come to be hypnotized, use a 'safecall', a prearranged phonecall to a friend at an appointed time to say you are all right during the first hypnotic session. Know the difference between harmless fun D/s humiliation, and the kind that works against your self esteem. You need that real core self respect and self love to keep all of your D/s and vanilla boundaries strong. And also to know when you are in trouble, even if it is only a gut sense that this is so. A healthy sense of self worth keeps you away from consciously or unconsciously wishing to abuse yourself by allowing a predator (nonconsensual 'Dom/me') to be abusive, even in a D/s way, which is to be avoided for your own good. It might feel good, but the cost can be very high, especially where hypnosis is involved! If you find yourself being drawn to the sort of humiliation that truly does tear up your self respect please seek help. There is an organization called Kink Aware Professionals or K. A. P. where you can find kink friendly therapists who can help you with this problem of seeking out destructive kink, help you if you consistently set boundaries that you do not keep, or also help you if you find you have the added problem not being able to break free from these patterns i.e. addictive behaviour where destructive D/s or BDSM relationships are concerned, hypnotic or otherwise. Lack of firm boundaries (this is your responsibility), misunderstandings between partners (both of you are responsible for this one), ANY form of nonconsensual kink, IS abuse. If and when you let that happen, you abuse yourself. If you find that you set firm boundaries, and cannot stick to them, then, in my opinion, you are in trouble with self respect. Please seek a kink friendly professional for help! Safely coming to grips with this problem now, may save your life, save your happiness, preserve your ability to partake in D/s activities in the future, or save your 'sanity' later. It could literally cost you your life one day. To continue to ignore the boundaries you set for yourself especially with the predators that now lurk online, is definitely not 'sane'. When you consider that you might be bound and gagged or have mind control used on you, you have to realize that even if you are big and strong it is of not much consequence. I suggest that men be just as careful as women in the vanilla world here. I know a predator that uses hypnosis, chloroform, extortion and calls herself a Domme so male subs, don't underestimate the female form. Hypnotic submission is an art form that works directly on the mind. The creative possibilities are unlimited and it is used in as many ways as there are dominant hypnotist partners. I use it in many ways. Some of my favorite uses are to foster delight in service in my slave, to increase the pleasure for myself and he, and to increase my already considerable control. My favorite type of hypnotic control is complete and total control of a man's sexuality, right down to teasing, limiting, denying, and allowing his every orgasm, or even controlling his ability to have them at all in a given circumstance. I like controlling when, where, and how orgasms are experienced by him, how long they last, how far apart they are, where they are exactly felt, how they are felt, how intense they are, what triggers them and inspires them, and in short everything about them. I love to suggest that he can only cum when and how I might command. I have done so many things now. Fortunately for the sub, I am more pleasure oriented; I take more pleasure in giving orgasms than denying them under most circumstances. I do have a stubborn streak, and I am a perfectionist too. Only when appropriate, with a true masochistic sub, I have used hypnosis to increase his pain. Of course his pain is his pleasure too. I don't enjoy whipping & flogging, or any disobedience. I just prefer to just release any slave or sub that frequently deserves punishment. Life is short and hypnotic Dommes each have millions of subs to choose from. I love to control or modify all the aspects of a man's sexuality. I like knowing about and controlling exactly what turns him on, what his fantasies are. I control whether he is chaste or is allowed to masturbate and under what circumstances. Sometimes I even modify his overall patterns of sexuality. I can make anything I choose an object of erotic stimulation for him, like a lamp, a pizza, a smell, a sound, a color, or a thought, an article of clothing, anything! I can cause interesting little things to happen without his expectation. For instance in the men's room at the office, finding he's in my lingerie under his business suit, or that he has a clothespin or an alligator clip on a private area, or any number of other things I might care to suggest, that he has done to himself that morning and 'forgotten' until his later discovery at my suggestion. I can turn him into anything I choose, and at a distance, at a certain time of day, or at any other stimulus I choose. I can break nasty sexual habits or create new ones. I make him tell me all his fantasies and I decide which he will keep. He is not able to withhold information from me either because I have access to his subconscious mind via ideo-motor techniques as well as hypnosis. I am surprized no one has ever asked me about that either from this article. In other words this means you cannot lie to me. I also use hypnotic suggestions as behavior modification tools to modify many other behaviors besides his sexual ones. I can make what is normally painful more so or less so or very pleasant or erotic or distasteful, or do the same with anything normally pleasant or even neutral. Basically I find that hypnosis is perhaps the greatest training and behavior modification tool for a dominant as well as a way to reward a good slave and have some fun too. I once turned a man into an a certain female Borg drone (7 of 9, as seen in Star Trek Voyager) and he slept standing up in a corner all night, and went to work the next day as this character. I like the little but powerful surprises. They are limited only by my imagination and they really let a sub know who's really in control. *smiles* I extensively use consensual covert hypnosis. Trances where the subject cannot detect the induction, and goes so deep he forgets the rest of the trance too. I also use a method I call blind directives, where the subject can be directed in non-hypnotized real time, unknown to him. For more on covert hypnosis and blind directives you should join my discussion group. There is a join box just below where you entered this site. A word about sex. Did you know that I can easily give a submission trance, or dominate a sub, without any reference to anything sexual at all? I understand that the activity probably turns you on anyway, (that's as it should be too of course), but that should not persuade you to change your mind about what you are willing to do on a given day or night, in or out of trance. Take a day at least to consider any change in your limits (boundaries). A nonsexual starter trance or D/s play may provide you with a more complete filter, through which a predator (a nonconsensual so-called dominant) may not pass through. This might be a great thing to ask for from a new Dominant to see if they are patient and will accommodate your limits and to go slow. Female subs understand this more instinctively. But male subs, regardless of the ratio of male subs to HypnoDommes, are equally at risk. Oh, you wanted to get hypnotized (click at your own risk) did you? I have been a certified clinical hypnotherapist for 20 years now, and I enjoy the really great subjects, because you can do so much with them. I mostly do submission trances in person, sometimes by phone and sometimes online, but only for my personal consensual slave/sub/partner, and occasionally for my discussion group or my friends. I am not a commercial Domme. I am a lifestyle Dominatrix and hypnotic submission is private, and strictly for the personal pleasure of myself and my pet/partner. This is due to the extremely intimate nature of hypnotic submission, as I practice it. While I would love to have a new partner, but I am definitely not looking for just a subject or a playmate.
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